What makes you think the rules are different for you than anyone else?
There's a big difference between what's selfish and what's doing something for yourself. You have to do things for yourself and it's not healthy to not do things for yourself.
Doing things for yourself doesn't make you selfish.
You can't do much for others if you don't help yourself too.
They explain this well in the airplane evacuation manuals on the planes. In an emergency you have to help yourself first, because if you die first you have helped nobody.
Is it normal to not want to impose my "will" onto the person i love?
↑ View this comment's parent
← View full post
What makes you think the rules are different for you than anyone else?
There's a big difference between what's selfish and what's doing something for yourself. You have to do things for yourself and it's not healthy to not do things for yourself.
Doing things for yourself doesn't make you selfish.
You can't do much for others if you don't help yourself too.
They explain this well in the airplane evacuation manuals on the planes. In an emergency you have to help yourself first, because if you die first you have helped nobody.