It's normal to want to... but no its not a good thing.
I had a girlfriend who I loved very dearly, I wanted to date her... she wouldn't, all she would do was sexting and phone-calls. There was no date, no us time (she was in a relationship "which she kept promising she would end"). I was naughty thing that got her blood flowing, probably the only streak of disobedience she could do at the time (I imagine she was hurting her boyfriend, she lied about him too).
I twisted myself, till I had to beg her to go out with me... she still wouldn't (always an excuse).
That wasn't love, and what your describing isn't love either... even if you go out on dates. You should be able to ask things of you partner, and he/she should be able to ask thing of you. Give/take so to speak.
Is it normal to not want to impose my "will" onto the person i love?
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It's normal to want to... but no its not a good thing.
I had a girlfriend who I loved very dearly, I wanted to date her... she wouldn't, all she would do was sexting and phone-calls. There was no date, no us time (she was in a relationship "which she kept promising she would end"). I was naughty thing that got her blood flowing, probably the only streak of disobedience she could do at the time (I imagine she was hurting her boyfriend, she lied about him too).
I twisted myself, till I had to beg her to go out with me... she still wouldn't (always an excuse).
That wasn't love, and what your describing isn't love either... even if you go out on dates. You should be able to ask things of you partner, and he/she should be able to ask thing of you. Give/take so to speak.