Is it normal to not want to have sex with your partner?

Thanks for your advice! You're right, I will need to definitely approach him in a different manner regarding the issues and hope for the best. I have talked about going to counseling and in the past he would dismiss that too, but lately when I bring it up, he says ok! But has yet to actually follow through...even if I tell him that I'll make the appointment! He just says, "One of these days!" I will keep trying until I say, "That's it!"