Of course he is going to say he is in love with you. He has settled in and your marriage is Convenient to him. Human beings are creatures of habit and change is a hassle for most people.
Making love to your partner in any relationship is the only way to show your true love for them. Fun sex in a relationship builds and strengthens a couples bond. Your missing out on both these absolute necessary components to have a happy and loving friendship and marriage.
I have been married twice for over 20 plus years. My first wife passed several years ago. My second wife and I make woopy at least 3-4 times a week. And she is my best friend and buddy. I am 50 years old and my wife is 52.
Breaking news your not going to change this person no matter how much you try. Counseling is a joke the idiots counseling you have their own problems. He is who he is and a temperary change is not worth squat. Don't piss your life away. Its going to be real hard but it will be worth it. LEAVE HIM AND DON'T LOOK BACK!! You only have one life to live, so live it on your term and don't let another person take that away from you. I tell my daughter that all the time.
Wow, what you say about him being settled into the marriage...makes absolute sense!
I thank you so much for your sound advice, it has given me a lot to think about. I have thought about leaving, but don't want to leave him in a state of despair.
Is it normal to not want to have sex with your partner?
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Of course he is going to say he is in love with you. He has settled in and your marriage is Convenient to him. Human beings are creatures of habit and change is a hassle for most people.
Making love to your partner in any relationship is the only way to show your true love for them. Fun sex in a relationship builds and strengthens a couples bond. Your missing out on both these absolute necessary components to have a happy and loving friendship and marriage.
I have been married twice for over 20 plus years. My first wife passed several years ago. My second wife and I make woopy at least 3-4 times a week. And she is my best friend and buddy. I am 50 years old and my wife is 52.
Breaking news your not going to change this person no matter how much you try. Counseling is a joke the idiots counseling you have their own problems. He is who he is and a temperary change is not worth squat. Don't piss your life away. Its going to be real hard but it will be worth it. LEAVE HIM AND DON'T LOOK BACK!! You only have one life to live, so live it on your term and don't let another person take that away from you. I tell my daughter that all the time.
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Wow, what you say about him being settled into the marriage...makes absolute sense!
I thank you so much for your sound advice, it has given me a lot to think about. I have thought about leaving, but don't want to leave him in a state of despair.