I've tried a million times to talk to him about the issue, but he dismisses it completely! The only medication he's on now is an antibiotic for a cold. It could be ED, but I will never know if he won't open up to me!
Your going to either have to learn to go without or not allow him to dismiss it. Be kind but incredibly persistent. Tell him that if there is a problem your willing to do anything to get through it but it can't be worked on if he refuses to address it. Maybe suggest marriage counseling but I doubt he will talk to a stranger if he won't talk to you. If it was me id also stress how much he is loved and that its not so much the lack of sex that will eventually hurt the marriage but the lack if communication and willingness to try to fix the problem.
Thanks for your advice! You're right, I will need to definitely approach him in a different manner regarding the issues and hope for the best. I have talked about going to counseling and in the past he would dismiss that too, but lately when I bring it up, he says ok! But has yet to actually follow through...even if I tell him that I'll make the appointment! He just says, "One of these days!" I will keep trying until I say, "That's it!"
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I've tried a million times to talk to him about the issue, but he dismisses it completely! The only medication he's on now is an antibiotic for a cold. It could be ED, but I will never know if he won't open up to me!
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Your going to either have to learn to go without or not allow him to dismiss it. Be kind but incredibly persistent. Tell him that if there is a problem your willing to do anything to get through it but it can't be worked on if he refuses to address it. Maybe suggest marriage counseling but I doubt he will talk to a stranger if he won't talk to you. If it was me id also stress how much he is loved and that its not so much the lack of sex that will eventually hurt the marriage but the lack if communication and willingness to try to fix the problem.
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Thanks for your advice! You're right, I will need to definitely approach him in a different manner regarding the issues and hope for the best. I have talked about going to counseling and in the past he would dismiss that too, but lately when I bring it up, he says ok! But has yet to actually follow through...even if I tell him that I'll make the appointment! He just says, "One of these days!" I will keep trying until I say, "That's it!"
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I really wish you the best.
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Thx :-)