Is it normal to not want to have sex?

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People have told me that I have been to young to decide whether I want it of not since I was 14. I am now 21 and don't want to have sex... Nothing about it appeals to me. I would rather just admire the one I love from afar of something. IIN?

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  • SEWnanist23
    9 years ago | pl

    I think there is No such thing as Asexuality in Humans although some claim to be! I've "partnered" in My time but most of the time when I wasn't I masturbated and have admitted to it. It IS Normal for You to not want to go with Tom , Dick , Harry. Mary, Jane or Sue because they have been with others as well. It's like a One World Orgy out there. That's why You have to wrap it!

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  • Uzzie101
    12 years ago | pl

    Again, this actually contradicts human nature. You should desire sex. Nearly every animal should. Unless you're asexual...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Not Normal At All.. O_O

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    yea

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago | pl

    cuddling > sex

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    not normal

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  • Proudfear
    13 years ago | pl

    probably ,but there may be a medical issue behind it.if youve never been turned on its definitely a medical issue. but on the plus side when u do love someone lust wont get in the way on findingthe right person

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  • joemommamia
    12 years ago | pl

    Thats because you have not met me! I will be in your area on the 19th and maybe we can get together at the local motel say about 8PM to discuss this futher?

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  • lilBlondeQTpie
    13 years ago | pl

    I feel the same way about the sex part. It's something I could live without until I find someone who I feel really deserves me. I think that in a relationship the little things are more appealing rather then sex. I dont know about the admiring from afar though.. I think it would be healthy to get into a relationship and do the little things as in hanging out, having fun, expressing love in al diff ways like those.. until you feel comfortable enough with the person you are with to take the extra step.
    Hope it works out for ya, and I hope this helped in some way, yes you are normal. (:

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