Is it normal to not want to have casual sex?

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Hello, I'm 19 and still a virgin. I've had a few girlfriends and gotten very far with all of them on emotional and physical levels, but I've never had sex. I've always wanted my first time to be with a woman I loved, but I still have yet to be able to with any girl I've loved. I considered casual sex, because there have been women who've said I'm handsome, sexy, hot, and they wanted to fool around, but I always had a weird feeling... Like it was wrong to just throw away my first time or something... I tried out one of those adult facebook things before and I thought I had gotten passed my fears, but every time I've gotten basically a yes and a gallon of gas away from sex, I feel like I should still wait. I've had crushes before and I wanted to sleep with them, but every time I think about it, it's a romantic, lovey dovey scenario. I'm not sure if I'm just scared, or I feel like I'll be judged, but is it normal to only want sex with girls I love or have a huge crush on?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Nothing is more over rated then losing your virginity, especially when its all you hear about during teen/HS years.

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  • rlp25
    12 years ago

    Please yourself.

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  • headstrongbabex3
    12 years ago

    Although I haven't had sex,
    I totally agree with how you feel (although I am a girl)
    At times, I just wanted to get it over with so I'd consider just having sex with any guy at a frat party, or whatever.
    But, I feel like you'll be really dissapointed in yourself if you do, because, from what I hear, having sex for the first time with someone you love is absolutely amazing.
    You sound like an amazing guy, and you will find a girl who is lucky to have you. :)

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    I waited till I was in a long term relationship till I had my first time. :) It was amazing. Its better to have your first time with someone you love and are comfortable with. You won't feel as nervous or like your being judged that way. Hope I helped.

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