Is it normal to not want to be nice

Basically, I’m tired of being nice now. I try do things for people, help them out when they need it. From now on, if someone says something to me, I’m just gonna be rude and mean. You can’t act TOO Nice to people? You gotta be kinda mean right!!

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  • Grunewald

    Maybe you need to re-connect with whatever it is that made you nice in the first place.

    There is too much meanness in this world; I don't need to tell you that. Maybe some assertiveness would do you and the world some good, instead. Decide where your limits are and set boundaries. Let people know where those boundaries are. You don't have to be mean about it. Then you won't get exhausted.

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  • You don’t need to be rude - just set boundaries - and stick to those boundaries.

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  • eeeekkk

    Choose who’s worth to be nice to and who is understandable to act meanly to.

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  • Being a cunt is far more enjoyable than being nice.

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  • apanda2

    Being nice is easy when you feel like it. It's harder to do the right thing when you don't feel like it.

    "I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love." -Mother Teresa

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  • RoseIsabella

    Naw, don't be mean, just ghost people if they are constantly hitting you up for bullshit. I too hate it when people make pests of themselves, but it's not worth the energy it takes to get über mad. If a person I barely know is constantly asking me for shit ignoring that person. Oftentimes all it takes is something as simple as not stopping when you see that person, but instead you just say hi, and continue walking.

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  • People are people,

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