Is it normal to not want sex as much as a man does?

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So I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and almost 3 months now. I have never had sex with anyone before him and now it seems as though, I lost it sometimes I want it and other times I just don't. He seems to want it more than I do and if I tell him I don't want to he is the biggest baby in the world and he gets frustrated and I am not the type to give in to what he wants. It is really fustrating that he keeps making me feel guilty. I start thinking maybe we should have waited longer. I don't know how to handle this. I love him so much but like I don't know how to explain to him that I don't want to have to sex as often as he wants too. Sometimes I have too much on my mind or I'm really tired. We tried talking about it but we seem to go in circles and it becomes that we have sex when I want to and not when he wants too. What do I do? Is this normal?

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  • chocoholic89
    12 years ago | pl

    It's not that I don't like sex. I just don't like too much of anything.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    I have never understood women who don't like sex

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  • randypete
    12 years ago | pl

    thats why guys fuck around

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  • dappled
    12 years ago | pl

    I don't want to sound negative about your boyfriend but you sound more mature than he does. Being in a relationship is about compromise. You can't always get what you want.

    Sex is a difficult one for men because each gender sees it differently. Genetically, we've been bred to be ready at any opportunity (in prehistory, we had to be) and it takes us time to learn that women aren't the same as us. I hope he sees things from your point of view at some point.

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