Don't compromise the start of your marriage for the sake of others. If they care, they'll be happy with what your happy with.
Make sure you two are happy, not your parents and buddies.
We're both "people pleasers" though.. That's why we're sort of torn..
And he won't speak for himself, so when I ask him what he wants, he says he wants me to be happy.. and if I don't want a wedding, we don't have to do it..
These people should be pleased as long as you're happy.
As for your fiance, you've got to get him to tell you what he wants. It's his day, too, after all.
That being said, you don't have to compromise your own happiness and comfort to make him happy. You can both find common ground.
Is it normal to not want a wedding?
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Don't compromise the start of your marriage for the sake of others. If they care, they'll be happy with what your happy with.
Make sure you two are happy, not your parents and buddies.
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We're both "people pleasers" though.. That's why we're sort of torn..
And he won't speak for himself, so when I ask him what he wants, he says he wants me to be happy.. and if I don't want a wedding, we don't have to do it..
ugghhh...
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These people should be pleased as long as you're happy.
As for your fiance, you've got to get him to tell you what he wants. It's his day, too, after all.
That being said, you don't have to compromise your own happiness and comfort to make him happy. You can both find common ground.