If you're 18+ (and I hope you are if you're on this site), you're perfectly entitled to make any decisions you'd like, regardless of how good or bad they might be.
Myself, I'd give it a chance. You never know when you'll lose someone and once they're gone there's no opportunity to heal whatever hurt there is, you just get to live with it.
As examples, not that I had strained relationships with them, but I've lost two friends this year. The first was female, 22 (good friend... nudge, nudge), driving through a green signal, some asshat doesn't stop for his red signal. She's killed instantly. The second, was a male, mid-40's, he and his wife were coming over to visit with my paramour and myself. He feels chest pains, his wife asks if he wants to go to a hospital. He's the kind that NEVER wants to see a doctor but he says 'yes' so she knows it's serious. Three hours later he's dead, the heart attack killed him. They never even got him on the operating table.
IIN To Not Want a Relationship w/ My Dad?
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Sure.
If you're 18+ (and I hope you are if you're on this site), you're perfectly entitled to make any decisions you'd like, regardless of how good or bad they might be.
Myself, I'd give it a chance. You never know when you'll lose someone and once they're gone there's no opportunity to heal whatever hurt there is, you just get to live with it.
As examples, not that I had strained relationships with them, but I've lost two friends this year. The first was female, 22 (good friend... nudge, nudge), driving through a green signal, some asshat doesn't stop for his red signal. She's killed instantly. The second, was a male, mid-40's, he and his wife were coming over to visit with my paramour and myself. He feels chest pains, his wife asks if he wants to go to a hospital. He's the kind that NEVER wants to see a doctor but he says 'yes' so she knows it's serious. Three hours later he's dead, the heart attack killed him. They never even got him on the operating table.