Is it normal to not trust my girlfriend after she danced for my friends

I'm usually not one to use this language, but, CUT THE SLUT! She sounds like a skank and no self respecting man puts up with stuff like that.

I would not want to be with a woman like that. Your trust issues seem valid...but you know her more than anyone.

So, you just sat there and watched him grope her? I'd definitely cut her loose, but I'd also cut his ass looks as well. Drunk or not, there are certain lines that just shouldn't be crossed.

Being jealous is normal. Figure out what you are and aren't okay with and talk it over with her. Make sure you're on the same page and put it to bed.

Right with you. Trust issues definitely valid. Woman I'm dating (second time around, actually) has a habit of talking to damn near any guy when we go out, especially if we sit at a bar, including turning her back to me (making it difficult for me to get into the conversation..but I still do). She's even gone outside for a smoke with a few, but at least one asked me first "Are you sure it's ok?" to her disdain that he'd even ask me.

She has health issues, and doesn't get out much unless we go out, but, she's also an exceptional beauty, has gorgeous, light green eyes, a sexy smile, and is very personable. In short, she's a flirt and guys go to her, even when I'm there. I get that she's on overload when we're out, as it's socialization she doesn't get enough of, but..Every fkn time we go out, this shit happens. I can time it, sometimes in seconds, how long it will be before she's chatting with some guy. And it pisses me off.

Told her a month or two ago, I don't like it, it makes me look bad, and you look available when you're not (I could have said slut, but held off). She replied with "You don't want me to be me". I told her yes, I did, is why I love her..But, this constant need for attention and being a social butterfly, almost purely with guys, has to stop. Is also why I try to get us a booth if we go somewhere, and, keep us out of my usual sports bar, as I know too many people and we had a bad night there one night. Guy I know slid his ass right over, of course, on her side and not mine, bought her a drink, and chatted her/us up all night, to the point she told me "Does he think I'm going to fuck him right here on the bar?".

I had a direct, you pissed me off, chat with him about a week later. This is the stuff I try to avoid, taking her out and basically serving her up to other guys.

My advice would be..Talk to your gf about it, and if she won't change..Dump her ass and go for someone else.

Move on. It'll only eat at you. You shouldn't be put in that position

So it was set up that the two women were to wear or bring lingerie to the bar?
Did you know that this was going to happen? That she was going to lap dance for him?
Remember drinking can bring out the worst in people and can be an eye opener too.
How has she been since that night? Is she suddenly distant to you or doing odd things? If not maybe you should chock up and move on.
Trust is a major role in a relationship. If you don't have that it's useless.

Id hold her down while the crowd fucked her till she was on the floor covered in cum and begging for the cocks to give her a break

If she danced a minuet with half the family looking on, that's harmless. If she danced naked with a naked man she didn't know, that's possibly a reason for mistrust. But then again, if you get turned on by girls that do it with everybody, there's no problem surely?

My wife always nude dances for/with my friends, family, neighbors, etc. We all enjoy her sexy performances which I condone and encourage as it always leads to great sex. She has even danced for quite a few bachelor parties which I always attend so as to not let it get out of control. Has done a local men's club charity " Las Vegas Night" where her outfit started with her wearing pasties and bikini and heels but ended up wearing heels. This works well for us as I have total trust in her and vice versa and admit this is not for every marriage.....Believe me as there is no room for jealousy and I realized this before we married as she was raised nude and is proud of her body which she works hard to keep in top shape. Hence she loves to show and share it just like her upbringing....

It's just harmless fun. She's with you, not him. Lighten up, mate!

Ok, so i wouldn't try to separate your girlfriend from your friends, but i wouldn't encourage her to get drunk around them either.

WHORE!

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