One of my closest childhood friends decided to do that. She was 19 and didn't want to be a virgin anymore, so she decided to have sex with a cute guy who just moved to town. He honestly seemed like a nice guy, so I never warned her against it, but after they had sex, he went to a party the next night and tried to tell a bunch of people that she was the worst lay he's ever had. I was there when he said it, so I said to him, "She was a virgin before you! What's your excuse?" Everyone laughed at him because they all knew my friend too. He was so embarrassed, he left the party right away.
Be careful what you wish for. My friend was upset for weeks by the situation. Honesty, is probably the best policy. If you find the right guy, he won't be bothered by it and might he be a little more considerate too.
IIN to not tell someone you're a virgin BEFORE having sex with them?
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One of my closest childhood friends decided to do that. She was 19 and didn't want to be a virgin anymore, so she decided to have sex with a cute guy who just moved to town. He honestly seemed like a nice guy, so I never warned her against it, but after they had sex, he went to a party the next night and tried to tell a bunch of people that she was the worst lay he's ever had. I was there when he said it, so I said to him, "She was a virgin before you! What's your excuse?" Everyone laughed at him because they all knew my friend too. He was so embarrassed, he left the party right away.
Be careful what you wish for. My friend was upset for weeks by the situation. Honesty, is probably the best policy. If you find the right guy, he won't be bothered by it and might he be a little more considerate too.