Is it normal to not take your partner seriously?

That's not something anyone should ever joke about. U need to get rid of him. He clearly doesn't care about ur feelings and causes distrust

Many a true thing is said in jest....

That's an awful thing to do to someone! I wouldn't trust him either! Doesn't sound very caring!

Don't waste your time on a foolish player

Aw bin the fool.
Don't waste time with anyone who doesn't make you happy.

I would end it with him, save the trouble for the next girl... he sounds like a lost cause :(

Maybe it was a test, not a joke.

He told me he loves his soccer more than me and He had a blow job last night and that same day I dumped him. I'm not gonna get used again. Then he told me i was bait for popularity.... Then he said that was a joke. Now a friend of his is flirting with me.

Well, it kind of depends. Did you trust him before he started making jokes like that?

Because if you didn't trust him before--if you thought he was cheating on you and he wasn't, he might have gotten mad and retaliated by saying that your suspicions were true.

I did that to my ex bc he never trusted me (for no good reason) and I got fed up with it. Eventually, if he started bringing up how he thought I was cheating on him, I would just say something like, "Oh, yeah. I cheated on you with a few different guys."

Wow - do you think you should go out with someone who would be pulling your chain like that? It doesn't matter whether he is cheating or not. He doesn't have much respect for your feelings either way. To me that's a deal breaker.

Do the same to him, I'm sure he will get the hint.