He is the one that is trying to connect with you and you are resisting. Withholding sex from your husband because you don't like his maturity level sounds like a punishment and we are not here to punish our spouses when we are upset by their behavior.
Maybe if you let your husband be intimate with you it will help you two bond, and he will feel closer to you and want to please you outside of the bedroom. Equally, you should should explain what you need from him - in detail - and don't get into the blame game with him. There shouldn't be any who's wrong or who's right in your communication. Focus on what you need from each other and not what the other person is doing wrong. Don't bring up the past; state what you need today & in the future and move forward.
You may also benefit from a few sessions at a marriage counselor.
Is it normal to not show "affection" to my husband?
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He is the one that is trying to connect with you and you are resisting. Withholding sex from your husband because you don't like his maturity level sounds like a punishment and we are not here to punish our spouses when we are upset by their behavior.
Maybe if you let your husband be intimate with you it will help you two bond, and he will feel closer to you and want to please you outside of the bedroom. Equally, you should should explain what you need from him - in detail - and don't get into the blame game with him. There shouldn't be any who's wrong or who's right in your communication. Focus on what you need from each other and not what the other person is doing wrong. Don't bring up the past; state what you need today & in the future and move forward.
You may also benefit from a few sessions at a marriage counselor.