Is it normal to not see money as everything while your gf does ?

I know you need money to survive and live but I'm not obsessed with it. I need it but I'm not obsessed with it. I like having money in my pocket, and it feels good to be able to take care of yourself but some people are greedy about it. When I picture being rich, I picture being able to experience life in a way that isn't limited because of your financial state. When others think about being rich, they think about access to all of the finer things in life. And then they act so stuck up and snobby about it. If I was rich I could picture myself being the same person, spending my money on the things I buy now ( Electronics, Anime, Clothes, Chinese food, treating myself, traveling, equipment) but just being able to not be on that big of a budget. I mean, I'm not saying I would ignore having access to finer things but some people act like they need it, just to make themselves feel like they're a better person or something. My girlfriend always brags about that type of stuff, and it's annoying sometimes. I'm not rich, yet. But even right now, when I talk about doing what I can do for her now, she just make it seems like it's cheap. She looks at couples who are accomplish and makes it seem like that's what love is. If you can't give her her financial expectations as have boyfriend, she thinks you're not a good one. She's not the type of girl that you wanna do good things for, she makes it seem like an agenda.