You don't really display any sign whatsoever of wanting to improve with these answers.
Why would you work in a soup kitchen? You have to ask that?? Because being a decent human feels good. It's genetically programmed inside our physiology to, because we are a social animal, and the success of our species relies on helping each other out.
Not that the soup kitchen is the end-all in being decent, just one of a trillion outlets to do so.
Also, apparently you're one to judge. Based on looks. But I do it, too, sometimes. Honestly though I have no problem associating with people I see as ugly, I just am shallow about romance / intimacy with them.
I'm not sure why you are shallow about looks when it comes to merely interacting with another human. Try thinking about how most people would look at you if they knew what you were thinking about the people you judge?
As I said, I'm not sure I want to change that about me.
About the soup kitchen: I know that it's a good thing to do. What I meant was - how is that gonna help overcome my shallowness? I mean, I could give someone a plate of soup and still think: Here you go, uglyface.
Your last question: Well, they would probably wanna kick me in the nuts. Good thing they don't know.
An effective way out of being shallow seems not to exist.
Is it normal to not see a way out of shallowness?
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You don't really display any sign whatsoever of wanting to improve with these answers.
Why would you work in a soup kitchen? You have to ask that?? Because being a decent human feels good. It's genetically programmed inside our physiology to, because we are a social animal, and the success of our species relies on helping each other out.
Not that the soup kitchen is the end-all in being decent, just one of a trillion outlets to do so.
Also, apparently you're one to judge. Based on looks. But I do it, too, sometimes. Honestly though I have no problem associating with people I see as ugly, I just am shallow about romance / intimacy with them.
I'm not sure why you are shallow about looks when it comes to merely interacting with another human. Try thinking about how most people would look at you if they knew what you were thinking about the people you judge?
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As I said, I'm not sure I want to change that about me.
About the soup kitchen: I know that it's a good thing to do. What I meant was - how is that gonna help overcome my shallowness? I mean, I could give someone a plate of soup and still think: Here you go, uglyface.
Your last question: Well, they would probably wanna kick me in the nuts. Good thing they don't know.
An effective way out of being shallow seems not to exist.