Is it normal to not really like my friend?

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So, I have a friend who I have been friends with for over 10 years, and I have come to realize that I can't stand her. She recently got married and I feel sorry for her husband and wanted to yell out, "don't do it" at the wedding! She is completely narcisistic and controlling. I don't want to lose a longterm friendship, but find myself with all these aweful thoughts. Am I the bitch who should just be happy for her or should I just drop the friendship? And should I tell her why I don't want to be her friend or just let it go?

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Based on 66 votes (55 yes)
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  • yahoo1
    14 years ago

    I don't think its jealousy. I think over time (especially 10 years) people just change and aren't compatible any more. I would only tell her why if she asks other wise just let the friendship go.

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  • rlp25
    12 years ago

    I've "hated" my best friend before. She's "hated" me. She called me "bipolar" and I thought she was a "superficial cunt." We tore each other's hair out. I really believed all that stuff at some point. You know, I really AM a bipolar, moody bitch, and she really can be a superficial cunt. But we get each other's jokes, we've been friends for ever- and we know everything bad about each other. Take that for what it is.

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  • whatsfordinner62
    13 years ago

    I hate my friend for no reason too your growing apart

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Me too.

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  • linwe
    14 years ago

    Sounds like y'all have grown apart! I am in the same situation!

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  • lewlew80
    14 years ago

    Sounds a lil jealous

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