Yup. I never understood why people are so obsessive about looks. I also hate how media in general promotes "super skinny" as beautiful when that just causes a lot of self esteem issues in young woman. A lot of woman can't fit into a size 0 dress or whatever the really small sizes are (I'm a guy and have no idea what the sizes and such are for women's clothing). Whenever my girlfriend says she wants to change something about how she looks, I always ask her for whom she wants to change those things about. If she says she wants to change them for herself, then she has my support, but I also tell her that I'm perfectly fine with how she looks in case if she really wants to change herself so that she thinks she's more attractive to me, when in reality I already find her very attractive. Only things I don't really want her doing is getting plastic surgery or things like that... I just want her to be natural... that's all I really ask for when it comes to how women look...
Side note: I do approve of plastic surgery or implants or whatever if it's to recover something lost or to fix something like a birth defect (i.e. facial reconstruction/plastic surgery because they were in an accident or something that caused them to lose their looks or having or their cheek is sunken in since birth or something along those lines, or if they had breast cancer and fought it off but lost their breasts in the process... I'd be fine with them getting breast implants if they wanted them because I know that can be hard on women). If they do get implants, I'd hope they would get something that looks natural to their figure (i.e. not getting DDD or H's when they're short and slender, if they're short and slender... I think flat-C's are natural looking... If they were naturally bigger than that before they lost them, then I'd be fine with them returning to their old size)... I know I'm a little picky when it comes to whether or not something looks natural... it's just that so many people hate how they look and will sometimes go through ridiculous things to achieve what they think is beautiful... and they end up not looking even remotely similar to how they originally looked. I'm also perfectly fine with breast reduction surgery.
IIN to not really have a preference?
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Yup. I never understood why people are so obsessive about looks. I also hate how media in general promotes "super skinny" as beautiful when that just causes a lot of self esteem issues in young woman. A lot of woman can't fit into a size 0 dress or whatever the really small sizes are (I'm a guy and have no idea what the sizes and such are for women's clothing). Whenever my girlfriend says she wants to change something about how she looks, I always ask her for whom she wants to change those things about. If she says she wants to change them for herself, then she has my support, but I also tell her that I'm perfectly fine with how she looks in case if she really wants to change herself so that she thinks she's more attractive to me, when in reality I already find her very attractive. Only things I don't really want her doing is getting plastic surgery or things like that... I just want her to be natural... that's all I really ask for when it comes to how women look...
Side note: I do approve of plastic surgery or implants or whatever if it's to recover something lost or to fix something like a birth defect (i.e. facial reconstruction/plastic surgery because they were in an accident or something that caused them to lose their looks or having or their cheek is sunken in since birth or something along those lines, or if they had breast cancer and fought it off but lost their breasts in the process... I'd be fine with them getting breast implants if they wanted them because I know that can be hard on women). If they do get implants, I'd hope they would get something that looks natural to their figure (i.e. not getting DDD or H's when they're short and slender, if they're short and slender... I think flat-C's are natural looking... If they were naturally bigger than that before they lost them, then I'd be fine with them returning to their old size)... I know I'm a little picky when it comes to whether or not something looks natural... it's just that so many people hate how they look and will sometimes go through ridiculous things to achieve what they think is beautiful... and they end up not looking even remotely similar to how they originally looked. I'm also perfectly fine with breast reduction surgery.