Is it normal to not like your sister

My sister and I are 6yrs apart. Im 20 shes 14 and we dont get along AT ALL!!! Ima Cancer she's a Aquarius((not big into horoscopes but alot of ppl say thats why we dont get along.)) I lovvve her to death I would do anything for her but I dont like her. She has the WORST attitude that i have ever seen. She's always angry. Shes ;azy and selfish. She dont clean up she dont listen to nothing my mother says all she do is sit around the house and watch tv all day...unless shes getting something out of it. If my mother says that she will give her money or a gift then thats the only time she cleans up or listens but as soon as she get it she's backl to her normal self. Its to the point where no one wants to be around her. My mother is very sick so she cant really discapline her like she did me. My mother cant get upset cuz then she starts throwing up blood her pressure goes up and she has to be admitted in the hospital so i try my best to do whatever I can to keep her calm but my sister dont care. she does things to make my mother yell and get her upset. Shes very disrespectful she lies all the time and shes dirty. I use to go out and buy her clothes and shoes every friday because I always wanted a lil sister. I always thought sisters should be bestfriends and we were when we were young but for the past 4yrs we just been bumpin heads. I use to try and get along with her but she only nice when se think someone is buying her something. For one thing she's too grown and I see that she's a lil lost in life so I try to help her out but she always bring out the attitude. I feel as though I should be her role model and I am I see that she wants to be just like me and I try to help her but it gets me nowhere. Now shes going to hs this year and I always pictured that we would be going places and hanging out. Shopping in the malls together, going to get our hair and nails done together, movies, dinner, calling eachother and talking on the phone...things like that. But were not. I would rather hang out with my sister than my friends but her attitude makes me dont even wanna be around her. I try to make my day as busy as possible just to not be around her. Me and my mother are bestfriends and we get up early in the morning and leave her home just to be away from her so that we dont get stressed out.
I kno it hurts my mother to see her only daughters fight everyday so I try not to but i just dont like her. i feel bad because of that...is this normal??

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  • I3Understand2True1Love

    Tell her that you always wanted a little sister, and you still want her to be your little sister no matter what also she might feel better if you compliment her, and hang out with her more,and do everything she does most of the time. I know it's hard, but try, and establish a connection with her, or find something in common with her.
    (Hope you two are happy in the future. P.S: Don't tell her she's a bitch. =) )

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    shes a teenager, all teenagers are bitches... so yeah kinda normal i think its a bit over the top ur mum getting that stressed about it.

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  • Hooviva

    Slow down, member of the sisterhood! Girls are disgusting, love is for girls, but why should your sister be ewwww? She doesn't clean up, it's normal for sisters to be icky, sticky, and full of the kooties.

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  • Junk-Food-Night

    Trust me, you never know what's really happening or what your little sister might be thinking she can be very upset about something very hurt about something and don't know how to deal with it, its great that you are making an effort and you are really in the right, but you should really have a good conversation with your sister try to understand whats happening talk to her tell her to tell you everything.

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  • Clearly she has no respect for you or ur mom mom. All she wants is money from her. She knows her mom is sick, so therefore she has no respect for anyone. if i ever treated my momma tht way, i'd get smacked sideways & then some.

    It's a good thing you're making an effort to be nice to her. maybe she'll grow up sometime & regret all the times she got an attitude with you and your mom. She's gotta realize tht momma ain't gonna be there the rest of her lif giving her money. if she gets a job & has an attitude like tht with the boss, her butt will get fired on the spot.

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  • Caps90

    No it's not. Maybe your sister feels kinda neglected in a way. She could be angry inside that your mom is sick and can't take care of her.

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  • lillypoppy

    just talk to her and find out whats her effing problem..its probably your mother though and stay on her ass don't let her be lazy since your mother is sick and can't discipline her then you need to step in and make sure she does what she needs to do and if she don't like it then GROUPHOME :)or whatever you do to teens that don't listen

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