Sounds like someone is a bad influence on them - the other parent, extended family, peers, etc. Find out who and undo their dirty work. Avoiding your children might seem like the only way, but you really need to spend MORE time with them. Somewhere in your children, there is YOU, but you're not going to find that genetic replication of your personality unless you seek it. Unless you are lazy and disrespectful yourself, you need to become a bigger influence in their lives. And you should already know that won't be a piece of cake. Its an every day job.
Is it normal to not like your children...at all?
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Sounds like someone is a bad influence on them - the other parent, extended family, peers, etc. Find out who and undo their dirty work. Avoiding your children might seem like the only way, but you really need to spend MORE time with them. Somewhere in your children, there is YOU, but you're not going to find that genetic replication of your personality unless you seek it. Unless you are lazy and disrespectful yourself, you need to become a bigger influence in their lives. And you should already know that won't be a piece of cake. Its an every day job.