Thank you, she's 6. Overall, she's a very sweet girl, especially when she wants to be, lol. I see that some people have the misconception that I "hate" her, which is the furthest thing from the truth. I love this little girl, truely, I only had bad, strange feelings that I couldn't understand or put my finger on at times. What helps me out sometimes is remembering that she has her own mother that is very actively in her life and that it is not my job to be her mother, otherwise it might be perceived that I am trying to take her mother's place, which I am not. I only want us all to get along and for everyone to get proper attention and to share and for everyone to know that they are deeply loved. I know that we won't ALWAYS get along, that there will be a time or two that we might bump heads in the future. It was only important to me that I make the best steps to the best of my knowledge and ability. I want to be a good mom to both children and a good (one day) wife. I'm sure that it will come with time and experience and making a few mistakes along the way and learning from them.
I really appreciate your input.
Is it normal to not like your boyfriend's child anymore???
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Thank you, she's 6. Overall, she's a very sweet girl, especially when she wants to be, lol. I see that some people have the misconception that I "hate" her, which is the furthest thing from the truth. I love this little girl, truely, I only had bad, strange feelings that I couldn't understand or put my finger on at times. What helps me out sometimes is remembering that she has her own mother that is very actively in her life and that it is not my job to be her mother, otherwise it might be perceived that I am trying to take her mother's place, which I am not. I only want us all to get along and for everyone to get proper attention and to share and for everyone to know that they are deeply loved. I know that we won't ALWAYS get along, that there will be a time or two that we might bump heads in the future. It was only important to me that I make the best steps to the best of my knowledge and ability. I want to be a good mom to both children and a good (one day) wife. I'm sure that it will come with time and experience and making a few mistakes along the way and learning from them.
I really appreciate your input.