Thank you. I always, pause when she says something... not quite so nice. She is only a child and not even mine so I hardly ever say anythong unless it is very serious. I understand fully that it must be very confusing for her, so i always play with her, have little child conversations with her, play games, show her attention... so on. I've come to realize that my feelings were stemming from a small silly jealousy. Being in a very new relationship and being a new mother was making me emotional, and i feel that I might've been going through a little phase where I needed to know that I was loved, and needed attention; feelings of insecurity. Boyfriend and I finally sat down one night and had a heart to heart (not about his little girl because she isn't a problem at all, my feelings were), and talked about the changes in our relationship. And I found my bad feelings draining away. We are all good now, thank you very much for your sound input. :)
Is it normal to not like your boyfriend's child anymore???
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Thank you. I always, pause when she says something... not quite so nice. She is only a child and not even mine so I hardly ever say anythong unless it is very serious. I understand fully that it must be very confusing for her, so i always play with her, have little child conversations with her, play games, show her attention... so on. I've come to realize that my feelings were stemming from a small silly jealousy. Being in a very new relationship and being a new mother was making me emotional, and i feel that I might've been going through a little phase where I needed to know that I was loved, and needed attention; feelings of insecurity. Boyfriend and I finally sat down one night and had a heart to heart (not about his little girl because she isn't a problem at all, my feelings were), and talked about the changes in our relationship. And I found my bad feelings draining away. We are all good now, thank you very much for your sound input. :)