I feel mixed on this. Its normal to feel like lots of couples are just together for the sake of being together or having someone to bang since then, romance isn't a part of it. But to diss the feeling completely and assume everyone who tries is wasting their time is a bit much. I say this because I have actually seriously cared about a few people to the point where I thought about them everyday and really appreciated their company. I didn't try to do that, I wasn't looking at all, but slowly and surely, it happened. The risk "can" bring about pain later of course but putting down everyone for trying isn't right in my opinion.
Its said to love yourself before you can love someone else and I believe that. Enjoying life and doing what you personally like comes first. But if you start to seriously fancy someone, not attempting anything for the sole reason of fear, previous experiences or dislike for affection is silly. Just maybe, it might be a good experience.
Is it normal to not like the feeling of love?
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I feel mixed on this. Its normal to feel like lots of couples are just together for the sake of being together or having someone to bang since then, romance isn't a part of it. But to diss the feeling completely and assume everyone who tries is wasting their time is a bit much. I say this because I have actually seriously cared about a few people to the point where I thought about them everyday and really appreciated their company. I didn't try to do that, I wasn't looking at all, but slowly and surely, it happened. The risk "can" bring about pain later of course but putting down everyone for trying isn't right in my opinion.
Its said to love yourself before you can love someone else and I believe that. Enjoying life and doing what you personally like comes first. But if you start to seriously fancy someone, not attempting anything for the sole reason of fear, previous experiences or dislike for affection is silly. Just maybe, it might be a good experience.