Love is a wonderful feeling, but...
Not all couples truly love each other. They're just in a relationship due to lust, or for fun. They don't really deeply care for each other.
Sometimes it's so obvious that it pisses me off to see it.
Especially when someone I care about gets into a relationship that I can clearly see is destined for failure.
My brother, and one of my friends just went through bitter break-ups. In both cases, I could tell that there was no love and the relationships were destined for failure. I warned them, but they didn't listen. A few months later, the inevitable happened.
People are like that. They mistake lust or fun for love, despite how blindingly obvious it is to others. Only one day when they truly experience love for the first time will they realise how stupid they were.
I hope to never end up in a relationship like that.
I would hate myself afterwards for all the time I wasted on a person that didn't deserve it.
The same goes for crushes. Crushes are usually just a temporary surge of emotion caused by some event that often gives us an impression of a person that is out of context with who they really are. Very seldom do they withstand the test of time. One may often find that his/her crush changes or turns out very different that they thought that person to be and that they are no longer desirable.
Is it normal to not like the feeling of love?
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Love is a wonderful feeling, but...
Not all couples truly love each other. They're just in a relationship due to lust, or for fun. They don't really deeply care for each other.
Sometimes it's so obvious that it pisses me off to see it.
Especially when someone I care about gets into a relationship that I can clearly see is destined for failure.
My brother, and one of my friends just went through bitter break-ups. In both cases, I could tell that there was no love and the relationships were destined for failure. I warned them, but they didn't listen. A few months later, the inevitable happened.
People are like that. They mistake lust or fun for love, despite how blindingly obvious it is to others. Only one day when they truly experience love for the first time will they realise how stupid they were.
I hope to never end up in a relationship like that.
I would hate myself afterwards for all the time I wasted on a person that didn't deserve it.
The same goes for crushes. Crushes are usually just a temporary surge of emotion caused by some event that often gives us an impression of a person that is out of context with who they really are. Very seldom do they withstand the test of time. One may often find that his/her crush changes or turns out very different that they thought that person to be and that they are no longer desirable.
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nicely said. can u guess who do you have a clue