Is it normal to not like sluts?

I have some thoughts! *sticks up hand*

First of all, I think it's very prejudiced to think that slutty people aren't trustworthy. It's very crude to imply that someone in a relationship is more likely to be unfaithful just because they had sex a lot when they were single. Being in a relationship provides a very different context in someone's life, which elicits very different behaviour from them. They probably wouldn't have even entered a relationship with you if they didn't intend to be faithful, or would have broken up with you before going back to having casual sex. So that particular prejudice just doesn't make sense to me.

I also think that being promiscuous isn't the same as just having sex with "just anyone" - they still wouldn't have sex with someone they didn't think was physically and/or personally attractive, for a start. I know that's hardly on the same plane as having a deep connection, but you're still being very crude. Even worse when you say that they "fuck anything"; you're dehumanizing people just because they do something you don't enjoy. My friends who self-identify as sluts certainly have a mental list of people and types of people that they wouldn't have sex with. Having casual sex often is perfectly compatible with being selective and exclusive.

I think it's good that you have a personal preference, and it seems logical to have that personal preference for you. If you want a long-term relationship you are right to only be involved with people who have a similar outlook to you and you are right to be involved with people on a deeper emotional plane and not just having sex casually. However, I think it's still possible to have a deep emotional connection with someone who has had sex with many different people. They are just as capable of it and many are just as receptive to it as people who don't have casual sex are.

My point in saying all this is that it's perfectly good to have a personal preference, and that might be preferred for you because of your own personality, but that preference can also lead to lots of irrational prejudices like "sluts aren't trustworthy", "sluts have STDs", "sluts are immature", "sluts don't care who they have sex with" etc. I understand that the strong feeling of disgust is something you can't really control, but you should realise that it's completely irrational and can't really be justified logically.

Those are my thoughts. And yes, I think I am being irrationally critical of you.

EDIT: As always, I forgot to actually address the question. I think your preferences are normal and understandable, and up to a certain point they are logical.
At a very rough estimation I would say that about 50% of my male friends are like you, and the other 50% are not. Many of the second set are looking for a long-term relationship but are having casual sex in the meantime and are in no way adverse to sluts.

I would actually go so far as to say that those who have denied themselves sexual experience are disrespecting their bodies and missing out on life.

"When I have fucked girls I didn't really care about all it was was temporary sexual pleasure and I regretted it"

You kinda admitted to being a slut yourself!
What if some girls regret some of the times they spread their legs too easily?

This weekend I had two new sexual encounters together with my boyfriend, we had a fucking blast and we are both enormous sluts.

I'd state that our life is way better than yours, judgemental ass.

And yeah, I'm defensive. You have actually rejected sweet nice girls because of their fucking past.

Sluts are fun.

What you mean there are girls who would bed a guy for free without all the commitment bagage? Where are they? How do you meet one? I'm interested. I thought they only existed in porn movies.

I don't know.

Maybe if I start fucking a lot of different sluts I'll not care if they fuck other people?

I mean if I keep fucking different cute girls I'll probably not get attached or really care about what they do?

Maybe I should try that at least once and see how I feel about it?

I think I'd miss the intimacy though.
I love looking in a girls eyes and having that bond of sex and love while fucking her.

Over the next year if I decide to do that I'll post back here and let you guys know if I'm happy fucking random sluts or if I much prefer getting serious with one girl.

I think it's normal.

Just like I wouldn't want to date a man whose had sex with a long list of women.

However, the overall tone of your post is really demeaning. The females who are not "sluts" or "whores" do not appreciate this.

I hope you will find your dream woman. Sounds really normal to me that you don't want to date a total slut.

"I think the idea that a man has less chance of being with a good woman just because he has had casual sex ridiculous. I've seen no evidence of it, "

That's because all you know are sluts who don't care.

You don't know any quality people with morals and intelligence.

Thumbs down to you oh slutty one.

If you really could get with someone special you wouldn't need to be a slut.

Actually I'm getting horny now, maybe I'll go fuck a teen slut and use her like the cheap whore she is.

Maybe I'll go to the mall and have a 3 way with two hot little teen sluts.

Mmmm. sounds fun.

I'm exactly the same way. Sure I have wild fantasies like anyone else but when I look at my family and previous friends, most of them have had or made children early and almost all of them ended up regretting it due to their chosen partners being dangerous, causing problems to them or their family later or simply having new life-changing responsibilities. Some have even lost their own self-respect at the expense of their partner but will never admit it. Your mentality is not wrong, it is smart. Believe me, I've had opportunities but I do not want STDs or to be a father this early in my life. Many people treat sex as a "Go ahead and do it, its fun and harmless, YOLO!" kinda deal but its not even close to being that safe and has real consequences. Not everyone wants to take that chance just yet.

Many people seem to have the mentality of wanting their guy/girl not to be a virgin and have plenty of experience so the sex doesn't suck but there are more important factors than experience. I'd rather do it with someone who has never done it before or just a few times than 7 different people, that would be a huge turn off. I'd say you're on the right path OP, using your head is a good thing.

Hello.

Sorry if this comes off as a little mean or rude I just woke up and haven't had coffee yet lol.

You sound very defensive in your post. I'm guessing not only do you know a lot of sluts but you are probably one yourself.

Many quality people like myself would never date a slut or take a slut seriously.
You might be thinking well then that's their loss but is it really?
Over time as you age the more people you fuck your reputation is going to get worse and you'll be known as a cheap easy slut.

I don't know any quality person male or female that would marry or even seriously date a slut.
I know some guys that would fuck ho's and sluts but they'd never take them seriously. Only use them for sex.

"Many of the second set are looking for a long-term relationship but are having casual sex in the meantime and are in no way adverse to sluts."

I think they're headed for trouble when they finally find a girl they want to get serious with if she's been a total slut.

Are those male friends not smart enough to realize their lessening their chances of being with a quality woman?

They are :

1.Wasting their time and energy with casual sluts partners which makes them less available to quality women.

2. Taking a much higher risk of getting STDs which means many quality women won't want them.

3. They're building up a bad reputation as being a dog or a slut fucking almost anyone casually. Many quality women won't date a dog and won't marry a dog.

4. They're building up habits which they'll likely break when in a serious relationship.

Let's face it, if they enjoy casual sex so much to continuously do it, then it really doesn't make sense they'd magically stop having casual sex with multiple people just because they're temporarily 'in love' with someone new.

Sluts fuck 'random' people because they enjoy fucking and not so much a quality relationship.

People in general don't like to compromise what they like and being in a committed relationship to a slut is a huge compromise.

You said sluts you know care about these friends of theirs they have casual sex with.

What do you think is going to happen when your slut friends falls in love with a guy/girl and she finds out he/she has been a slut fucking his/her friends?

The mate is no in hell going to be cool with them knowing each other anymore nor should they.

That means your casual fuck buddies aren't that important because whomever your new mate is you're going to pick him/her over your fuck buddies.

So which is it?

You fuck buddies are important and that's why you fuck them, or they're expendable unimportant sex soon to be dropped at the first sign of you dating someone you really like?

Seriously why slut around ? There's so many sex toys and ways to satisfy oneself without all of the negative things slutting involves.

Who do you think a quality man would rather seriously date and then marry?

A little slut fucking 'random' casual people or a woman with strong morals that knows her body is special and sex is a part of love and it should be shared with someone special?

I've never met any guy that dreams of marrying or seriously dating a slut.