Is it normal to not like sex?

I am 31 years old and I guess I've always been put off about the idea of having sex. I've previously enjoyed sex and have 2 children, it's something that's gradually got worse as times gone by. Its not just the sex itself that put me off but the smells and the bodily fluids and sweat ect ect. I could be, and have been 'horny' and wanting to have sex, but, then its like a switch clicks in my head and those thoughts immediately repulse me away from the even the thought off sex. Is this normal and is there a name for it, or even any advice to read further? I need more information, its destroying my relationship.

Is It Normal?
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  • Like so many here you don't give enough information to even attempt an answer. It's not even clear if you're male or female.

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  • Adding to my other comment. This page might help too:

    http://mmikan.tumblr.com/post/125794304036

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  • I tried making a comment on this two days ago but?? I think something went wrong...Anyways, Yes! This is perfectly normal!! You may be on what's called the ace spectrum. These people experience little to no sexual attraction and some are even repulsed by sex. I suggest going to the Asexual Visibility and Education Network, or AVEN, website to learn more and see if it sounds like you.

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  • Every time a woman says something like this I think one thing: frigid. God get a clue.

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  • Maybe the last person you messed with was just kinda gnarly?

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