I think it's normal. I love my mom but sometimes I can't stand to be around her. She's in that whole "I'm still attractive and cutesy and everyone loves me" phase in her middle age. She constantly lectures about how carbs and starches are evil and I should never eat bread, pasta, corn, or potatoes. She is also really tactless and tacky at times in the things she says in public and it can be embarrassing. She always means well and I love her, but usually I'm glad I live six hours away.
Your mom sounds really hurtful and annoying. If you haven't already talked to her about it, do so. She probably doesn't even realize the way she's acting. If you don't get through to her, just make sure you go to a college far away and get your own place afterwards =P Just remember, family members are our friends that we don't get to choose and we can't get rid of. Don't let your mom get you down. If you feel good in what you wear, keep feelin' good and if she wants to pretend you're not gay, just let her. You're probably much happier in life than she is.
Thank you very much for the reply :)
She isn't always like this. It usually depends on her mood, if she's had a good day or bad day, and that's the same with me. I love my mum to death and would do anything for her, but sometimes, I just need to get away lol.
Also, she is very invasive, which i find sooo irritating. Like, im still a teenager, and most mothers of teenagers dont care what their kids do - they just leave them be to do what they want. But my mum ALWAYS has to see what im doing, who with, and where im going. It's not that she's protective, she just gets excited and likes to know everything. I had a couple of mates over today and we were going to the park and i took my camera and she was like "ooh! where are you going? what's the camera for?" and when they went home, she comes to my room and is like "omg! show me the photos. i wanna know what you photographed!!!". Arrrrrgh!, mum..... piss off and give me some space!! hahaha. That's one of the reason why she drives me insane !!!
Is it normal to not like my mother?
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I think it's normal. I love my mom but sometimes I can't stand to be around her. She's in that whole "I'm still attractive and cutesy and everyone loves me" phase in her middle age. She constantly lectures about how carbs and starches are evil and I should never eat bread, pasta, corn, or potatoes. She is also really tactless and tacky at times in the things she says in public and it can be embarrassing. She always means well and I love her, but usually I'm glad I live six hours away.
Your mom sounds really hurtful and annoying. If you haven't already talked to her about it, do so. She probably doesn't even realize the way she's acting. If you don't get through to her, just make sure you go to a college far away and get your own place afterwards =P Just remember, family members are our friends that we don't get to choose and we can't get rid of. Don't let your mom get you down. If you feel good in what you wear, keep feelin' good and if she wants to pretend you're not gay, just let her. You're probably much happier in life than she is.
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Thank you very much for the reply :)
She isn't always like this. It usually depends on her mood, if she's had a good day or bad day, and that's the same with me. I love my mum to death and would do anything for her, but sometimes, I just need to get away lol.
Also, she is very invasive, which i find sooo irritating. Like, im still a teenager, and most mothers of teenagers dont care what their kids do - they just leave them be to do what they want. But my mum ALWAYS has to see what im doing, who with, and where im going. It's not that she's protective, she just gets excited and likes to know everything. I had a couple of mates over today and we were going to the park and i took my camera and she was like "ooh! where are you going? what's the camera for?" and when they went home, she comes to my room and is like "omg! show me the photos. i wanna know what you photographed!!!". Arrrrrgh!, mum..... piss off and give me some space!! hahaha. That's one of the reason why she drives me insane !!!