Is it normal to not like kissing?

I’m nearly 18 and have never been in a relationship and have never kissed/been kissed by someone romantically and I don’t want to. What’s so appealing about kissing? I’d imagine it’d feel gross, someone’s squishy, wet, possibly chapped mouth rubbing against me doesn’t sound like a pleasant experience.

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  • THEFUCKISACHERRY

    Yes. A lot of people dont like kissing because a lot dont find it very attractive.
    Basically you are doing what love makes you do. FUCK

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  • Tommythecaty

    kissing isn’t unappealing at all, it’s that you are just being a damned weirdy or mentally stunted in some way.

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  • Kundalini

    It's normal but if you like someone, please inform that person before you move further in relationship your views towards kissing. So that person can decide well about you. For any relationship romance and sex is equal pillar. If they aren't stable later or sooner big turnoff can come in relationship.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I love kissing if I'm attracted to the person, and it's good kissing.

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  • litelander8

    I love kissing! Nice soft lips though. I made out with a dude who had a really “stiff” mouth. It made me super uncomfortable.

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    • Bazinga

      I'm with you, babe. I think great kissing is highly enjoyable. You can make it exquisite, or sensual, or tease her with slightly less tongue than she wants. Who the hell says you need full sex to release oxytocin. My brain starts releasing it when my lips get moist from hearing anticipation in her breathing.

      Let's put it this way, " Kissing is the song of life." I'm glad you already know this. Not everyone does.

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  • ellnell

    I dont like kissing unless im really into the person.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    You’re right, sometimes it is just gross. Apparently if you’re with someone you’re attracted to and they have soft lips and don’t swirl their tongue around like a washing machine it can be good, but I can’t speak from personal experience there.

    Give it a try if you want, or don’t. Cupid isn’t going to flutter down from the heavens and spank you for not kissing. It’s up to you.

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    • EnglishLad

      "Cupid isn't going to flutter down from the heavens and spank you for not kissing"

      That image made me giggle like a pothead smoking a 20g blunt

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      • someone0noone

        pretty sure they're just good at hilarious analogies... I was laughing more at the imagery of "swirl their tongue around like a washing machine"

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