As a guy, flirting feels like some bullshit game to me. I'd rather just have a natural conversation with someone and actually get to know them. If you can't connect with someone in ordinary conversation, then why bother talking at all? I'm not going to put that much effort into the pursuit. Some girls try to make you bend over backwards to show that you're interested in them, and that's the exact moment that I lose interest. You're either available and interested, or you're not, and I won't waste my time playing games if you don't want to be genuine with me.
Is it normal to not like flirting?
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As a guy, flirting feels like some bullshit game to me. I'd rather just have a natural conversation with someone and actually get to know them. If you can't connect with someone in ordinary conversation, then why bother talking at all? I'm not going to put that much effort into the pursuit. Some girls try to make you bend over backwards to show that you're interested in them, and that's the exact moment that I lose interest. You're either available and interested, or you're not, and I won't waste my time playing games if you don't want to be genuine with me.