there's nothing wrong with not liking being touched.
personally... I both like and dislike it depending on my mood and the person involved.
Good mood: I have more tolerance.... as long as there's no "special parts" being touched (cos those are only for my BF to touch).
Bad mood: the list grows shorter. a lot shorter. I've been known to shake people's hands off of me and flinch from them. ... and if I can't see who's touching me, even if they're on my acceptable list, I'll shake them off too.
And I've met some who just hate being touched, because of things they've been through.
but hey if someone gives you crap over it tell them to stuff it.
the only right response to "don't touch me" is "sorry!" and to STOP touching the person. (or at least stop until it's OK, like in my case where it may be temporary)
Is it normal to not like being touched?*
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there's nothing wrong with not liking being touched.
personally... I both like and dislike it depending on my mood and the person involved.
Good mood: I have more tolerance.... as long as there's no "special parts" being touched (cos those are only for my BF to touch).
Bad mood: the list grows shorter. a lot shorter. I've been known to shake people's hands off of me and flinch from them. ... and if I can't see who's touching me, even if they're on my acceptable list, I'll shake them off too.
And I've met some who just hate being touched, because of things they've been through.
but hey if someone gives you crap over it tell them to stuff it.
the only right response to "don't touch me" is "sorry!" and to STOP touching the person. (or at least stop until it's OK, like in my case where it may be temporary)