Your concerns seem sensible to me and you should go with your instincts. Wanting to help the guy out is kind of you, but your priority has to be the people close to you. If you have even the slightest worries about how he'd behave towards the two women if he was living with you, don't invite him to stay.
Random thought:
You mention farm work and summer is coming (assuming you're in the northern hemisphere). Perhaps there's some way you could arrange for him to live in a trailer or even a tent on the farm for a few months? Maybe that's completely impossible or something he'd hate, but I think some people might find that a wonderful change after being locked up for a few years. It would also probably have the advantage of keeping him away from the environment and temptations that led to whatever caused him to be sentenced to jail.
IIN to not let my friend stay with us?
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Your concerns seem sensible to me and you should go with your instincts. Wanting to help the guy out is kind of you, but your priority has to be the people close to you. If you have even the slightest worries about how he'd behave towards the two women if he was living with you, don't invite him to stay.
Random thought:
You mention farm work and summer is coming (assuming you're in the northern hemisphere). Perhaps there's some way you could arrange for him to live in a trailer or even a tent on the farm for a few months? Maybe that's completely impossible or something he'd hate, but I think some people might find that a wonderful change after being locked up for a few years. It would also probably have the advantage of keeping him away from the environment and temptations that led to whatever caused him to be sentenced to jail.
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Not possible. Parole or probation would never allow someone to live in a trailer or tent. They need to establish residency not become a vagrant.