Is it normal to not know what i want

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I'll be 20 here soon and about maybe a year ago I've noticed that I'm sexuality attractive to women, all of sizes and Ethnicity. Age does not matter but I can't find myself to want to be with one for the rest of my life,or being loyal to just one. On the other hand I do like guys but not so sexually. I want dick but at the same time it's not really attractive. I rather marry a man though. I don't care what others think I'm just confused on who I am and my sexuality. I can't be the only one!

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  • Maid_in_Pink
    7 years ago

    It can take a long time to find yourself especially if you don't have a lot of experience to go off of. It's An odd feeling to be so terribly confused and have no idea what to do or where to go.

    Take me for example, I had transgender expressions when I was as young as 7(that I clearly remember) and some other people have mentioned that I did some stuff before that. I still hid from it, for any number of reasons, and it took me the better part of 25 years to figure out who I really felt I was and then to come to terms with it and figure out how to express it.

    Don't rush yourself is my best advice, you might end up married to a person you think you love in a life you think you wanted and children that you made yourself believe were what you needed.

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    • pollenallergie
      6 years ago

      or children that you didnt make yourself

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  • ostendous
    6 years ago

    Give it time and you will find the answer.

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