Is it normal to not know if i am bi or not?

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okay well im straight, i think. ive had boyfriends and im just after breaking it off with my last one but lately i think about having a relationship with a another girl and im really attracted to hayley williams out of the band paramore. my friend is bisexual and i sometimes think about being with her and what it would be like. sometimes i even dream about kissing and stuff with a girl and im just wondering am i bi or am i just bi courious? sometimes when i masturbate i think about girls not boys :/
is it normal that im thinking about being with girls? does anyone else have this problem? thanks in advance.

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  • waterfalls02
    13 years ago

    If you really want it, try being with a girl. If it doesn't work go back to the boys. You're bi curious then.

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  • Lia
    11 years ago

    You're probably just bi-curious for now, but the feeling is emphasised by the fact that you just broke up with your boyfriend, meaning you're kind of put-off boys for a bit, thus making you confused. Nothing wrong with experimenting with the same gender! You say you're curious what it'd be like to sleep with a girl, etc. but could you imagine yourself with a girlfriend? I see that as the deal-breaker between bi-curious and bi-sexual..

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago

    The Kinsey scale

    0 = exclusively heterosexual
    1 = predominantly heterosexual, incidentally homosexual
    2 = predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
    3 = equally heterosexual and homosexual
    4 = predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
    5 = predominantly homosexual, incidentally heterosexual
    6 = exclusively homosexual

    Sounds as if you are 1 or 2 on the scale.

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  • libertymoonbeam
    12 years ago

    Im a girl and i also think iam straight i dont know if im bi, mabey just bi curious and it is totally normal

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  • jbmitchell999
    13 years ago

    Waterfalls02 said it right.

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  • gabby690
    13 years ago

    im transexual - and gay - it took me a while to find out until i wore womens clothes out one day and someone called me a tranny lol

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  • PASSION
    13 years ago

    it is perfectely normal. I was bi curious too and then i was not curious anymore. I am now always finding myself so excited when it comes to females. I love dick more than anything but something about being with another woman that just turns me on. I think it is because the same sex is such a challenge. I want to have a realtionship with a female but unfortunately haven t met that one. I am with a man the father to my kids and want to be intimately close with one of my friends. I love the passion and the chemistry. So try it find out if that's what u would like or not.

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  • PeppermintStarlight
    13 years ago

    I think it's pretty normal to not know for a while. When I was in high school, I thought I was bi for the longest time. I even had a few big crushes on males. (I'm female, just to clarify.)
    But when I was 19 or so, I was at a party (a little drunk) and let a guy feel me up a bit. It was then that I suddenly realized that I find the idea of actually having sex with a man to be totally gross. I'm now in a very happy lesbian relationship. :)

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    • BABEisLOVE
      13 years ago

      wow! :)

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  • storyofmylife92
    13 years ago

    yeah you'r prolly bisexual. try going out with a girl and see how you feel about it.

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx
    13 years ago

    U r probably bisexual. I went through it too.

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    • Rappergirl
      10 years ago

      I don't know if it's different for you but I went from gay to bi

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    • normaliscrazy
      13 years ago

      okay. thankyou. :)

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  • trickydick
    13 years ago

    Me to I'm a guy and love to watch bi girls especially when I'm invited to join in. Two girls loving each other seems to be so much more beautiful than to guys going at it. I would do a very petit & pritty asian ladyboy if the chance came buy

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