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I'm looking for some great ways to masturbate to orgasm quickly! I have never orgasmed and I really feel like I need to! I need ideas without a dildo or shower head thingy.... Help?!? And where is your g-spot??
My g-spot is in my vagina, lol :)
Generally, g-spot is typically located 1 - 3 inches up the front vaginal wall. It gives a lot of pleasure and best orgasms ever but most women don't experience this kind of pleasure anyway and rely more on clitoris.
BTW, may I ask why you want to masturbate? I'm asking because I don't understand that you want to masturbate and you don't know how to do it - I mean, for a person who physically needs sexual release finding a way how to do it is an instinctual thing and such a person naturally finds out that something feels VERY good and just starts to do it - maybe even before they know what masturbation is. Such a person can improve their masturbation technique or find new ways how to do it later but knows some basics how to get off even without any information.
I can understand, I couldn't work out why I hadn't orgasm-ed after years of trying, I got a sort of satisfaction but never a release. It wasn't till after I had sex with my more experienced boyfriend that I learned what would get me off, then I was able to experiment more from there.
To the OP, try gently stimulating your clit and nipples, wetting your fingers with saliva can add a bit of extra sensation :) it's only once you can feel this NEED to have something inside you that you let go of your nipple, keep one hand on your clit, then use the other to insert a finger or two. You'll have to discover for yourself whether you prefer slow or fast finger action :)
I know some people will think I'm an idiot for saying this but the truth is that the g-spot doesn't even exist. Don't take my word for it, I'm not a medical professional, just google it. With all the medical advances in the world doctors could easily find a lump the size of half a finger nail inside a woman's vagina. The nerves in the clitorus are the same as the nerves in the head of a mans shaft. While a woman does get a pleasant sensation from penetration it's not a proper orgasm. The first doctor to discover the g-spo was a man and only did so as a way of validating a mans role in sex after a load of feminists stated the way for girl to orgasm had nothing to do with penetration and thus diminishing a mans necessity in the bedroom. Of course I don't often mention this in public because you just get a load of guys puffing out there chest and saying "obviously you just can't reach it", while just showing there own lack of knowledge and inability to please women. The simple fact is 95% of women choose clitoral based masturbation for a reason.
The quickest way to an orgasm is spending a night with me... Failing that...
Forget the g-spot and go for the clit. A lot of women can't orgasm from penetration at all and most choose clitoral stimulation over vaginal when masturbating which is why, if a guy wants to keep a woman happy he spends a lot of time on for-play and doesn't just stick it in and pump away. Believe me, we'd like to just stick it in and pump away because that's what works best for us but men and women are surprisingly incompatible sexually. Allthough I do know a woman who claims to have her best orgasms through anal penetration. Every one's different and its always worth experimenting.