Is it normal to not know how to flirt?

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I dont really know how to word that into an is it normal question but i really like this girl and she may like me back, but normally i always fuck up and end up just becoming friends with the girl i like, but i really like this girl i would really like to start a relationship with her. I try to flirt with her but the problem is she is really fucking beautiful and it seems like every guy flirts with her. Like they come up to her and start touching her and tickling her so what should i do? I only reason i dont give up is because she came to me wanting to be friends and most guys came to her and she has called me cute a few times....idk but i would really like to get with her but idk how to compete with all these other dudes.

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  • Winter.Finale
    12 years ago | pl

    If she already says youre cute then you are already in her favorites list, that means you do have a chance and you should USE IT.

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago | pl

    I don't know how to flirt either. What is flirt, anyway?

    I dare you people to give me a satisfying definition of "flirting" :-)

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  • crabtree
    12 years ago | pl

    if the other guys are always flirting with her and you don't she might like u better. i think giuys who are too touchy or sleazy are really annoying. so suonds like u are a good guy and should be yourself :) start off being friends and maybe it can develop further when u get to know her better

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  • RoyRogers
    7 years ago | pl

    Flirting is a learned behavior, just as all other type of courtship

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  • Lonely2
    9 years ago | pl

    Tell those other guys to stop touching her or you will fuck them up...tell her I dont want no grimy hands except mine touching your beatiful body...amd then smile like it was all a joke...but if the guy starts laughing look at him and stop smiling

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  • chick756
    12 years ago | pl

    All I can say,be strong!Love is a war for your the one you care about.In this situation is better to have good self-esteem.Learn something or do something unbelievable (something you can be proud for),then she will be interested more in you,if you will show yourself in the good way.Do not ennoy her with your love,try to ignore her for a little bit,but do not over do it.Let her know that you are by her side,but show her that you worth a lot.

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  • Hmmaybe
    12 years ago | pl

    Look on the bright side. You're not me. I have asperger's syndrome (so I cannot understand things implied by gestures or expressions) and I'm bisexual and don't know any girls (so effectively gay). I have to somehow find out who's gay and then flirt with them having no idea what they're thinking.

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    • dappled
      12 years ago | pl

      That must be awful. What if it's less subtle gestures, like a wink or a smile? Or if someone is obviously making sexual references but hiding them behind jokes?

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      • Hmmaybe
        12 years ago | pl

        I'd notice the first, but I've been assuming that the second are just jokes. Is this normally the case or not?

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        • dappled
          12 years ago | pl

          Hmm, I'm starting to see the problem. Nearly all jokes contain a hidden truth. Some talk about the human condition, some about a truth between two people. It can be hard enough to decipher whether the joking is also flirting, but without the signpost of gesture, it must be like watching TV without the sound off. I have a lot of sympathy.

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago | pl

    Just start saying random BS and hope you get lucky

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  • casualcrow
    12 years ago | pl

    Act natural. If you start spewing dumbass pick-up lines then she'll think you're a loser and move on to the next guy. I know it sounds cliche but seriously, just be yourself.

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