Your relationships & events seem out of step with your feelings.
I'd suggest that given how you feel, (not aroused or turned on, and pressured too) further sex with the bf is out. Since he is expecting sex, you are just going to have to be clear with him & put on the brakes.
How far you want to put on the brakes beyond no further intercourse is up to you. You might want to consider whether you want to have a single steady bf (him or someone else); or, be just dating a number of boys (circulate, enjoy & get to know yourself more w/o a lot of relationship baggage); or, just take a break from boys all together.
Whatever you choose, do put yourself in the driver's seat. You need to be the one in charge of what you are doing & when so it feels right & you feel good.
IIN to not have sexual feelings tword my current bf but do with ex?
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Your relationships & events seem out of step with your feelings.
I'd suggest that given how you feel, (not aroused or turned on, and pressured too) further sex with the bf is out. Since he is expecting sex, you are just going to have to be clear with him & put on the brakes.
How far you want to put on the brakes beyond no further intercourse is up to you. You might want to consider whether you want to have a single steady bf (him or someone else); or, be just dating a number of boys (circulate, enjoy & get to know yourself more w/o a lot of relationship baggage); or, just take a break from boys all together.
Whatever you choose, do put yourself in the driver's seat. You need to be the one in charge of what you are doing & when so it feels right & you feel good.