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I've been with my boyfriend for 11yrs. He finds it odd I don't fantasize about sex. I just don't really think about sex outside the bedroom unless its brought it up. Is it normal?
It's ok. Everyone has different levels of sexual attraction, desire and/or libido, and there's nothing wrong with that. If we were all the same the world would be a very boring place.
Guys tend to have more sexual fantasies than girls though.
I had to say "Yes" here for the simple fact, that I don't have sexual fantasies either. I am simply open to what ever my partner wants or desires. I have never even questioned until recently why I don't have fantasies of this nature, especially as a man. Now I have fantasied about engaging in sex with my wife, but nothing more than what typically occurs; this occurs when we haven't engaged in the act for a while and it's just my body telling me that I miss her touch and need her.
I voted 'no' because I honestly believed it was not normal. I fantasize all of the time and I have a vivid imagination. Apparently, I'm the one that's not normal, though.