Is it normal to not have close friends?

Hello, I wanted to see what others thought of my situation, the thing is i don't have any close friends literally. There are a few people i talk to every now and again but no one i ever hang out with. In highschool i was never allowed to have friends, i couldn't go out or join any clubs or sports, mostly because my step-mom never let me because she always supposedly needed me around the house. Everyday it was like i go to school, come home, do homework, eat, and help clean. I sucks, because now i'm 19 and in college and i feel like everyone already has their groups of friends and i have no one. When i try getting close to those that i still talk to every now and again theres never any time because they always have their own things to do. I no some may say it's not normal, but i honsestly feel it's not my fault because i was never given the chance to form frienships because of my step-mom. I am generally a sweet, gullable person who likes to have fun and help out others in need. The only person i sometimes hang out with is my little half sister but even she has her own friends she hangs out with. I have had a few guy friends i've gone out with but they always want to be more than friends which i'm not looking for right now. I just want some friends, no relationships or anything since i'm trying to focus on school. Let me know what you think, because i'm just curious.

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69% Normal
Based on 39 votes (27 yes)
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  • 0404

    Its normal. But do try and meet up with people and make a nice group of friends so it does not led to depression on your end. All the best :)

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  • Sabaky

    Welcome to my world

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  • iluvmypuppy

    of course it is, a lot of people don;t have many friends, you just need to get out there and keep trying. It may be hard but it will be worht it =)

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