Is it normal to not have any guy friends?

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It seems to me like none of my friends are guys. I am a girl and I am straight so I should have like a boyfriend or at least a few guys I can talk to, but I never had a boyfriend or many guy friends. I'm really nice and I'm a great person to be around (according to my friends.) yet, no guy wants to talk to me. I do admit that I am actually quite shy and I am really tall for a girl (5'10) which probably intimidates most people, but not one guy has tried to befriend me. I mean, I used to have a guy friend until he moved away and stopped talking to me last year. Since then, no guy has
Came up to me and really tried to be my friend. Am I just that unappealing and socially impared? :(

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  • stratigus
    14 years ago

    Wow, I think I am in the same situation except I'm a guy. The ratio of guys to girls in my major (engineering) is about 30:1. I'm usually pretty busy and I can't seem to meet many new girls. I'm probably a bit shy, too, and possibly a bit outspoken on some things. I am a decent guy and get along well with most people, I just don't know many girls. It's definitely hard sometimes. I think it is normal, but that doesn't make it fun...

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  • danabella_92
    14 years ago

    I too am a girl, and honestly I don't have guy friends either.. I have some people in some of my classes that are guys, and I will joke around with them an stuff but I don't really hang out with them. I think that it is normal. I wouldn't worry about it too much. (:

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You are probably just ugly. that will do it every time.

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    • _Molotov_Cocktail_
      10 years ago

      You will be too, after you receive the full blast of my Molotov cocktail in your face.

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    It seems to me that my boyfriend is a guy. Otherwise, none of my friend seems to be guys either.

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  • jrphotographer
    13 years ago

    No, its normal. A lot of my friends do have guy friends, I do tho (much less drama, know what I mean?). Hmm...try starting the conversation (I know you're kinda shy, but just give it a shot) if they are even slightly interested jn being your friend then they'll continue the conversation. Good luck! :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You can talk to me :D

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    I have a ton of guy friends but that's cuz you have to go up to them and talk get yourself noticed.

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  • lurndsayoh
    14 years ago

    You're not alone! All of my guy friends are they gay-preppy kinda guys that hang out with mostly girls. I love them to death, but that sentence just described them.

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  • SillyKitty55
    14 years ago

    i have tonz of guy friends. i am the opposite. i have loads of guy friends. and two girlfriends. that is it. for me i met most of them through college and some are still friends from highschool. some new through friends of friends. sometimes you can go to the bars, sit by yourself for 5 to 10 mns drink a beer, and a guy will apporach you and ta da! you have a new friend!!!
    it worked for me!plus i know tonz of ppl...lol
    you just gotta put your self out there more. don't be shy, be social. i am a social butterfly-so i hang with every type of people except druggies and the depressed "Gothic" type

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