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I'm a virgin, but I masturbate alot. I've read some sex stories and stuff like that and when they duscribe an orgasm it seems like it would be noticable, right? But everytime I masturbate I can never have an orgasm. I don't know if I'm just not having one or if it's very small and short so I barely notice it. Is this normal?
Maybe you need to find a new technique? You should try different areas and see which ones work out for you.
Also, you should imagine situations that turn you on. You might be experiencing all the feelings that lead up to orgasm, but you'll know when you get it.
What you are likely experiencing is called primary anorgasmia. Primary anorgasmia is the name given to the condition of never before having and being unable to achieve and orgasm. Regardless of your sex, an orgasm is definitely noticeable. You will have to talk with a sexual health professional or a doctor in a related field for treatment options. I assume, of course, that you are aware of how to achieve an orgasm depending upon your genitalia. Keep in mind, though, that not all women can experience regular orgasms through the stimulation of the vaginal walls. Most women can orgasm with clitoral stimulation and orgasm can also be accomplished almost universally through stimulation of the Grafenberg spot.