Ofcourse its normal that you called off the wedding. What's highly abnormal is the fact that he cheated on you over and over, and you kept running back to him. Sorry, but if you don't respect yourself how do you expect him to respect you?
This asshole probably lost respect for you after the first time he cheated and you took him back. He knew he could do anything and you would be too vulnerable to turn him down so he turned you into his doormat. I really don't understand how women can even look their man in the eye after having been cheated on.
Good for you that you eventually realised that this guy was not the one for you. In the future, stop being such a people pleaser and do what's best for you, not some cheating douchebag. Harsh as it may sound, you need to hear this. You can't go through life letting guys walk all over you because they will take advantage of this and you will be ripped to shreds.
IIN to not go through with an engagement?
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Ofcourse its normal that you called off the wedding. What's highly abnormal is the fact that he cheated on you over and over, and you kept running back to him. Sorry, but if you don't respect yourself how do you expect him to respect you?
This asshole probably lost respect for you after the first time he cheated and you took him back. He knew he could do anything and you would be too vulnerable to turn him down so he turned you into his doormat. I really don't understand how women can even look their man in the eye after having been cheated on.
Good for you that you eventually realised that this guy was not the one for you. In the future, stop being such a people pleaser and do what's best for you, not some cheating douchebag. Harsh as it may sound, you need to hear this. You can't go through life letting guys walk all over you because they will take advantage of this and you will be ripped to shreds.