Is it normal to not get turned on by making out?

I don't know why, but I never get turned on when making out with my boyfriend. I know I'm straight and I know I'm very attracted to him. I just don't get turned on. Is this normal? If not, how do I fix it?

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  • EdgeMasterED

    Try it without cloths.

    You're welcome.

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  • joelsmo

    you can convince yourself that you are attracted to him, but obviously you are not. Your comment about being straight makes me think there is doubt there. Asking other people how to get you turned on is like asking other people how to make you laugh, you are the only one who knows what turns you on, maybe he needs to kiss a little lower to get you turned on.

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  • BoredGuy

    You are making out with the wrong guy.

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  • Sabi

    If you are taking birth control that can affect your libido. Also if you boyfriend is a bad kisser ... ^_^ Plus, How old are you?

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  • Makko

    maybe you are thinking about it too much. Just relax and if you just don't get turned on by it then you just don't. It isn't that strange.

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  • Bludgeon him to death. You're welcome.

    No. Seriously, I would say that you might have a medical problem interfering with your level of arousal. Arousal is different from "love and affection". It is directly related to your libido. If I were you, I would see a doctor about it. Are you presently taking any medication?

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  • Ramit10

    Wish I could make out with out getting turned on but then againg my gf likes it when i do.

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  • rayst

    Definitely not normal

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  • theusual2011

    sometimes makin out becomes some act of habit or just u're not mentally in that place ...its totaly normal

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  • decgrl

    well it all depends on the location, and if your alone or not. And don't be afraid to let his and your hands explore each others bodies. That can help.

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