Where have you been that you don't know that sex without consent by anyone with anyone is rape? Did you think it wasn't rape because it's your gf? In fact most women are raped by someone they know
If you're doing domination/submission games with your bf you need to learn the basic rules: the first one of which is CONSENT and the second and third are also CONSENT AND CONSENT. Are you using safe words?
Life isn't like 50 Shades of Grey, you know, where you can do anything you like to someone because it's supposedly a "romantic" relationship.
If you share this fantasy with your bf and he's turned on by it, then that's fine, but it sounds to me as if you don't want consent from him because that's what turns you on, in which case you're both playing very dangerous games which can only end in disaster for him.
Reverse the genders: what would you think of a male who wanted to impose sexual acts on a woman without her consent? Get it now?
Considering he cant use safe words, we have a safe tune...
I guess if I don't want to loose him or something worse than that, I probably should stick on the safe side.
Are you sure you know what you're doing? If he can't use a safe word because he's gagged how does he manage a tune? If I were him, I wouldn't trust you for a minute, bu then I guess he doesn't know about your rape fantasy, does he?
Oh, so you'll play safe in case you lose him of to prevent something worse, not because "playing" without consent is rape and wrong wrong WRONG
IIN to not get sexual pleasure when boyfriend consents to bondage?
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:o thats scary that rape never came to mind when writing this!
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Where have you been that you don't know that sex without consent by anyone with anyone is rape? Did you think it wasn't rape because it's your gf? In fact most women are raped by someone they know
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A) I know its rape. It just some how didnt hit me as rape for some reason.
B) I am a female (which may be why it didnt regester as rape right away).
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If you're doing domination/submission games with your bf you need to learn the basic rules: the first one of which is CONSENT and the second and third are also CONSENT AND CONSENT. Are you using safe words?
Life isn't like 50 Shades of Grey, you know, where you can do anything you like to someone because it's supposedly a "romantic" relationship.
If you share this fantasy with your bf and he's turned on by it, then that's fine, but it sounds to me as if you don't want consent from him because that's what turns you on, in which case you're both playing very dangerous games which can only end in disaster for him.
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Considering he cant use safe words, we have a safe tune...
I guess if I don't want to loose him or something worse than that, I probably should stick on the safe side.
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Are you sure you know what you're doing? If he can't use a safe word because he's gagged how does he manage a tune? If I were him, I wouldn't trust you for a minute, bu then I guess he doesn't know about your rape fantasy, does he?
Oh, so you'll play safe in case you lose him of to prevent something worse, not because "playing" without consent is rape and wrong wrong WRONG
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Humming is the key... I keep hinting towards it but no, he does not know.
It's super llegally wrong but I also dont want to loose him.