I don't think that's necessarily true. When I was at university, most guys looked pretty average. There were some who were like you say, working out and keeping their looks up, but most were just meh average. Not outright ugly by any means, but not the kind of guys I'd make a beeline for.
So yeah, I can kind of relate to this post. Personally I don't think it's shallow to be somewhat selective about wanting partners who take care of themselves. I think it's only "shallow" when you're REALLY picky, rude about it, and have unrealistically narrow standards.
Is it normal to not find most men attractive?
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I don't think that's necessarily true. When I was at university, most guys looked pretty average. There were some who were like you say, working out and keeping their looks up, but most were just meh average. Not outright ugly by any means, but not the kind of guys I'd make a beeline for.
So yeah, I can kind of relate to this post. Personally I don't think it's shallow to be somewhat selective about wanting partners who take care of themselves. I think it's only "shallow" when you're REALLY picky, rude about it, and have unrealistically narrow standards.