Is it normal to not find anyone's death sad or horrifying?

to be honest, i don't love or care about anyone in my life. not my family, not my friends, not my pets, not my grandparents, no even me. and whenever i see a movie where someone dies, i am not moved. for example, the first 10 minutes of UP. infact i am kind of happy for their loss. (i like seeing them cry because most movies are so fucking predictable and cheesy, it's annoying) i also don't care if someone tells me about the death of their loved ones. Moreover, i'm not afraid of death either. i know that it is inevitable and there's nothing i can do about it.

Is It Normal?
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  • It's hard to decipher this...I can't tell if you're a teenager who's never experienced real loss (because you're comparing it to a Pixar movie)...or if you actually lack empathy. Please elaborate.

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    • i've lost two pets and my father nearly. he was in a car accident and was unconscious for a month. during this time, he could've dropped dead or go into a vegetative state. he woke up with memory loss/dementia and didn't recognize us until six months later. furthermore he had to go through six critical brain surgeries.

      but i agree with you, i lack empathy because during this time, i never ever felt sad or any other type of emotion. i was actually very confused over why my mom and sisters crying like it was the end of the world. sometimes they use to cry for hours and days and i didn't know what to do and why they were feeling this way. i use to think they were over reacting but soon realized that losing someone could have an emotional impact on others unlike me.

      now, i was using the pixar movie as an example because i was on a website where they were talking about how sad it was. every comment was expressing sadness or how they cried when watching the first 10 minutes. so i thought "am i the only one around here who doesn't feel that way?" and thus i decided to make submit this question.

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  • I am the same.

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    • YESSSSS! Finally! i thought i was the only one.

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  • you might be a sociopath. that doesn't mean your a crazy serial killer or something, just that you have a different kinda brain chemistry. and thats okay as long as you dont harm yourself or others.

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  • So then watching death and murder is how you relax and unwind?

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  • You Guys Are Psychopaths, What About Your Best Friend ,Your Childhood Friend Who Has A Kid Get Killed In An Accident And The Kids Mother Died When The Kid Was Born So The Kids Alone And You See This 1 Year Old Baby Start Crying And You Wont Care.

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  • So What When Your Mom Dies You Wont Feel A Thing At All, Look Man I Get You I Dont Give A Shit About Other People But Family Comes First No Matter What.

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    • I Don't Know Why You Type Like This. i understand that you love your family, i simply don't. they get to my last nerves. i will cut ties with them as soon as i become independent. you are lucky if your loves you and treat you right, mine would kill me if they know that i left my religion, either that or they'll kick me out.

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