Sweetheart, my motto is, "if he thinks he can find someone better, then go right ahead."
If he honestly wanted someone else then he doesn't deserve the title as your boyfriend. Period.
He should have honor just in you calling him so. Just remember that he won't find someone better and prove that to him. Not only would it prove that he's a dickhead if he chose your sister over you but it would prove that he's not the one. Our souls were destined to has a soulmate.
Ever hear the saying " if you love something let it go if it comes back to you it's yours but if it does then it never was." If he thinks he can find something better then let him he will soon realize that no one will love him better than you. But of course if the unexpected happens and he decides he wants to for some reason leave you, then he wasn't worth your time nor was he your soulmate.
Take my advice or you can mope around and feel sorry for yourself. You know your choice.
Yeah obviously it would be a dick move for him to go for my sister or even my roommate. But in reality, hes a shy and reserved guy and lags making moves so I fear him holding feelings for someone else cause he doesn't know how to express himself because he feels trapped being w me since he doesn't know how to end it. That's a lot of thinking I know I tend to do that I just like to think of all the possibilities including negative ones. I jut don't wanna be w someone who doesn't wanna be with me and since he's reserved what if he's just there trying to like me but naturally he doesn't. I honestly feel like it would be karma since I was with someone that I didn't like initially but he loved me so eventually I liked him but I believe since it wasn't natural from the beginning it ended pretty badly. Maybe this will be my karma but who knows as crappy as this feels I like him so much and I think him breaking my heart will be worth it.
Is it normal to not feel good enough for the person you like?
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Sweetheart, my motto is, "if he thinks he can find someone better, then go right ahead."
If he honestly wanted someone else then he doesn't deserve the title as your boyfriend. Period.
He should have honor just in you calling him so. Just remember that he won't find someone better and prove that to him. Not only would it prove that he's a dickhead if he chose your sister over you but it would prove that he's not the one. Our souls were destined to has a soulmate.
Ever hear the saying " if you love something let it go if it comes back to you it's yours but if it does then it never was." If he thinks he can find something better then let him he will soon realize that no one will love him better than you. But of course if the unexpected happens and he decides he wants to for some reason leave you, then he wasn't worth your time nor was he your soulmate.
Take my advice or you can mope around and feel sorry for yourself. You know your choice.
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Yeah obviously it would be a dick move for him to go for my sister or even my roommate. But in reality, hes a shy and reserved guy and lags making moves so I fear him holding feelings for someone else cause he doesn't know how to express himself because he feels trapped being w me since he doesn't know how to end it. That's a lot of thinking I know I tend to do that I just like to think of all the possibilities including negative ones. I jut don't wanna be w someone who doesn't wanna be with me and since he's reserved what if he's just there trying to like me but naturally he doesn't. I honestly feel like it would be karma since I was with someone that I didn't like initially but he loved me so eventually I liked him but I believe since it wasn't natural from the beginning it ended pretty badly. Maybe this will be my karma but who knows as crappy as this feels I like him so much and I think him breaking my heart will be worth it.