I don't know how normal this is but I feel it to. Except it sounds like you're already seeing this person, and you're not really vying for their attention. If he's with you then he's with you. You shouldn't put yourself down if the person you like is already with you. If they didn't think that maybe something was there and you weren't attractive, then they wouldn't have even given you a chance. See where the relationship goes and stop comparing yourself to other girls, easier said than done I know. Try focusing on yourself and how amazing you are as a person. Then it'll make total sense why the person you like likes you back.
Like I said below, today people will be with someone even if they don't really like them. It can be simply cause they're playing them, feel lonely so they're using them, or it can also be cause they just don't know how to end it and honestly I feel that way sometimes about us. Even if he's w me I feel like hell be better off w those other girls and once he gets to know them he won't know how to end it w me cause he is shy and holds back a lot. He lacks expressing himself. So I feel like we're both wasting each others time but I know I don't wanna end it cause I do like him a lot so if he ends it I'll know for sure it's time to move on.
That seems like a pretty bad way to view relationships. But I guess I can't really change your mind. I think you should stop thinking the way you do though. I mean it sounds harmful to your self esteem. Can't you just believe that he likes you? Like I said in my first post above, if you focus on the good qualities about yourself then I think you'll find it easy to believe why he's with you.
Yeah for sure this is a low self esteem issue unfortunately. I see it all the time. Someone who deserves better but it looks like the couple is either not aware of it because they have high self esteem or theyare aware but don't care cause they love each other. I wish I can have one of those, sometimes I wish I was blind and not be aware of these possibilities/negatives that can happen but I think a lot and I am protective of myself. But because I like him so much and he's actually proved little by little he likes me regardless of my flaws I'm just gonna keep going until I have a valid reason to leave him or if he just happens to decide to end it with me.
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I don't know how normal this is but I feel it to. Except it sounds like you're already seeing this person, and you're not really vying for their attention. If he's with you then he's with you. You shouldn't put yourself down if the person you like is already with you. If they didn't think that maybe something was there and you weren't attractive, then they wouldn't have even given you a chance. See where the relationship goes and stop comparing yourself to other girls, easier said than done I know. Try focusing on yourself and how amazing you are as a person. Then it'll make total sense why the person you like likes you back.
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Like I said below, today people will be with someone even if they don't really like them. It can be simply cause they're playing them, feel lonely so they're using them, or it can also be cause they just don't know how to end it and honestly I feel that way sometimes about us. Even if he's w me I feel like hell be better off w those other girls and once he gets to know them he won't know how to end it w me cause he is shy and holds back a lot. He lacks expressing himself. So I feel like we're both wasting each others time but I know I don't wanna end it cause I do like him a lot so if he ends it I'll know for sure it's time to move on.
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That seems like a pretty bad way to view relationships. But I guess I can't really change your mind. I think you should stop thinking the way you do though. I mean it sounds harmful to your self esteem. Can't you just believe that he likes you? Like I said in my first post above, if you focus on the good qualities about yourself then I think you'll find it easy to believe why he's with you.
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Yeah for sure this is a low self esteem issue unfortunately. I see it all the time. Someone who deserves better but it looks like the couple is either not aware of it because they have high self esteem or theyare aware but don't care cause they love each other. I wish I can have one of those, sometimes I wish I was blind and not be aware of these possibilities/negatives that can happen but I think a lot and I am protective of myself. But because I like him so much and he's actually proved little by little he likes me regardless of my flaws I'm just gonna keep going until I have a valid reason to leave him or if he just happens to decide to end it with me.