Is it normal to not fall in love after 2 years of relationship?

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I have been in a relationship for 2 years now (im a guy), and i just can´t fall in love with her. Yeah, I like her, I take care of her and all of that, but i just can´t imagen us in a trip to Paris or something very romantic. Im just 22 but with I used to be able to imagen that kind of things at the beggining of this relationship. I think that if this is real love i should be able to feel the same way I used to. The worst part is that she is in love with me.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Waste of 2 years

    Nice one

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    • davesumba
      11 years ago

      ^agree.
      must've been dat asss

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  • Jessikins1989
    11 years ago

    Aaw, that is sad.
    You should feel in love with someone if they're the one for you.
    Maybe you should leave her and let her find someone that truly will love her completely.
    You need to find your special person too, your only young once.

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  • Bone1999
    13 years ago

    I felt like that, we were going out for two years and I just couldn't love. But I don't have feelings so that's a good explanation anyway.

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  • Elegy
    13 years ago

    u should have left her before.Both of u deserve better ones

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  • zxy
    13 years ago

    If your not interested in her than let her find someone else

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  • mprocida
    13 years ago

    It ain't meant to be

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  • lovelyfeathers818
    13 years ago

    Im in the same boat with my boyfriend, but its only been a few months. He's amazing on paper, and I like spending time with him but I just can't fall in love with him. 2 years is a long time to be with someone and not be in love. I'd say end it, for her sake and yours. Life's too short, you know?

    haha and as I'm writing this, I find that its so easy to give advice rather than to take it.

    =/

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  • junkie1234
    13 years ago

    I know what your going through. You will never love her, not after 2 years. When in doubt, dump. Break her heart now, she will move on in time

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    Dude. If you're gonna break her heart, let her go. If not then make sure she knows where you stand.

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