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I dislike having sex with my boyfriend when he is too tired. He just lays there with his eyes closed and it's like having sex with a dead man. He is erect but it is not very fun for me and I'd rather wait until he is not tired and can participate. He claims he still wants to have sex but I just can't get into it. Is this normal?
Yes, it is normal for you both. Him, to just lie there when he is tired. You to feel that his lack of participation reduces your pleasure in the activity. It is a bit unusual though for him to be able to stay erect even if he "can't get into it!" His erect penis suggests some stimulation and gratification 'on some level' and he may not be being totally honest with you or with himself even.
Either way, there is course for concern because it is creeping you out a bit. Maybe talking about having sex only when you both are really into it? Or talking about fetishes related to his immobility during sex? have a discussion (in a non-sexual situation) about things.
best of luck to you!